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Friday Yans *** 27-08-21***

Was on Instagramย  earlier when one instablog post caught my attention.
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Twas about one female celebrity post about sticking with her man and getting married to him back then – even when he had NoThing (Commendable ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ)
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But, the comments I read ehn…
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Omo,
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Most females are deluded, walahi.
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Sometimes, I pity the future of the Now, cos some things wey dey happen now ehn… ๐Ÿ˜„.
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You need to see some “god when-ers” saying they won’t mind sticking with any poor guy too – till he makes it.
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…as if sticking with a poor guy is a guarantee that he’d get married to them when he “blows”.
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Omo xยนโฐโฐโฐ
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There’s a difference between a broke(hustling) person and a poor(idle) person.
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A person could be rich, but is poor in character, sense, manners, and other things. (You dunno about eet) ๐Ÿ˜
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And,
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” I was there with him while he was struggling” is not the same as “I struggledย  with him” (shey you know?)
… talk about emotional/financial/moral/mental support. ๐Ÿ˜Š
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Some babes thinks life is like what they watch in Nigerian/Korea movies…
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ย Babe, Reality is not Zeeworld o,
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… cos if you think life would play out as you see it in movies – your premium tears n heartbreak would be exTraordinary- Everyday! ๐Ÿ˜…
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Dear sister/babe,
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What I’m about to tell you, is what most guys won’t tell you cos-
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They feel if you know, they won’t have access to you or your pussy anymore. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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But, damn it… I think you deserve to know the hard truth.
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…because, I believe society is made up of you, me, and others out there…
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…and, somehow, our actions and inactions have consequences that affect eachother- one way or the other.
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So, It’s not like I’m telling you how to live your life o – of course Its-A-Free-World… (live your life as you want)
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But,
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I’d try to say to give you piece of my mind,ย  as a big brother/ a friend that has your best interest at heart
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So you’ve got 2 options – and you are free to “Take it” or “Leave it” – choice is yours… ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Atleast, I play my own part. ๐Ÿ˜
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People aren’t used to hearing or taking the hard n bitterย  truth/pills of life… (smh)
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Are you ready for this?
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In 3…2….1…
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Go!
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It’s not a must to suffer or stick with a poor/broke guy hoping he would make it someday and get married to you after
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Cos,
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Many dey wey marry poor man wey regret am.๐Ÿ˜‘
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E work for your sister/friend no mean say E go work for you o ( shey you get?)
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Life get as e tey dey.
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That’s why you should be self-sufficient… so that you don’t become a liability or depend on someone else to make it fess- before you Live Your Life & Achieve Your Goals.
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NB: it’s not a must to marry o, don’t let anyone or society to pressurize you into getting married.
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Cos… na dem go still yab you later if e crash along the line. ๐Ÿ˜Œ
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That Paul of P’square’s song titled “Reason With Me” is not for everybody o.
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Wake up to reality.
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If you’re with someone, you should be helping eachother grow,ย  adding meaning to your lives grow in various ways.
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… it’s your life sha, you should be deliberate about your life, actions & decisions (E Get Why)
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Pheewww
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Dear Broda,
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Get a girl with Beauty, Brain, and Character. … they all have pussies. ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Yeah, beauty fades… her ass & boobs will sag -with time.
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But,
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when her physical attributes are gone, it’s her brain n Character that’ll keep your bond 2geda – and raise your kids, too. (Shey you get?)
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… don’t settle for a liability o, cos na premium regrets go end am later.
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Cos, she won’t hesitate to give herself to the street when things get rough (temporarily or otherwise)
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Omo, get yourself a fellow hustler to build your empire with… your ride or die baby. ๐Ÿ˜Š
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I know our choices and tastes in women varies oh, but…
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I dey beg youย  Never Settle For Less, bro [ E Get Why]
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The woman you settle down with would have a strong influence on your kids( if you like go loose guard)
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Would you want your kids to be raised by a mannerless, low quality and unproductive slay queen?
( o wrong nau)
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No go let the urge to knack make you lose Focus o.
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Rule Number 1: Always improve on yourself. Become a better version of yourself-daily.
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Don’t be a weak man. Personal development is bae yunno.
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Be a valuable person… and, Never Settle For Less.
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If you remove sex from most relationships and you’d discover many people don’t have anything else to offer.

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Some people grew up in a dysfunctional family, and it damaged their thinking and perception. Those type don’t know how to love…
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or have the wrong perception about being love/relationship/marriage.
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… and that is what dating is supposed to be meant for. To know your partner’s – personality, flaws, temperament, how they handle stress, and other things
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…before you decide if you can cope with your differences & flaws, and live/build a life together.
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Most divorce cases of today could have been avoided in the dating stage back then.
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But, No, most people(males & females) have the wrong idea about dating.
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Some think dating is all about having access to unlimited sex, billing, gifts, shopping ,vacations, going to eatries and doing couple goals… (smh)
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Although all those are part of a healthy relationship, but, they are Secondary. Those are the side benefits of a relationship.
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Compatibility is the bedrock of every solid friendship/relationship or marriage.
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There’ll be many cases of divorce later sha.
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Cos, most people would start to know their partners true character inside marriage and they’ll discover they won’t be able to cope… and – file for divorce straight-up.
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Some of them may decide to endure a toxic/abuse marriage because of fear-of-what-would-people-say… and live an unhappy life ever after (too bad!)
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Of course, getting a divorce is better than staying in an abusive or toxic marriage o.
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Nothing/nobody is worth your peace of mind or mental well-being. (Never)
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But, the point is…. be careful with whoever you decide to walk down the aisle with (E Get Why)๐Ÿ˜‰
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Yes, we are all humans- with flaws and imperfections.
Thing is choose who can live our lives with – without trying to be someone else around them.
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Although there should be room for comprises here and there though, but… Use your brain.
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Make I pause Soro Sokรจ for here fess.
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Omo, I’m a product of a couple that compliments eachother. My parents na spec abeg.
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They did an amazing job with me… and I’ll be returning the favor to my unborn kids – I promise.
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Those 2 neva had a reason to invite a 3rd party come mediate in their misunderstandings.
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Yeah, they do have misunderstanding cos they’re humans – but, they know how to settle their differences overnight.
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Talk about getting married to your friend.
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They’ve been through thick and thin together, but, their love never wanes.
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They’re not perfect sha, but dem try, they did their best – and I’ll forever be grateful to them.
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Sometimes, we misunderstand eachother- to understand eachother better. (Na so e jus be)
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๐ŸŒ Sam Wealth (Efe) ๐Ÿ—ฃโœ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ฏ
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It feels so fucking good to be back here, mheeennn! ๐Ÿ˜
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๐Ÿป

4 Replies to “Friday Yans *** 27-08-21***

  1. Wow, cool…. This is a top notch nuggets for everyone…

    Fluid dey your head, or should I say your wisdom personified…

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